I know the excitement my partner feels really turns me on and excites me. There are lubes on the market that are specifically made for anal sex, but as always, be careful to avoid any lubricants that contain glycerine or parabens, which can cause pain and irritation. Stick with beginners toys. Explore Your Sex Life Sign up for our tease newsletter to receive free weekly tips! Add more lubricant throughout as needed. Choosing the right lube is another story. It makes it as far as the perineum, which is next to the anus.
You just have to do it right, go slow, prep in advance, use a lot of lube, and keep your communication flowing throughout.
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By having regular anal play or sex, your body will just learn to be more relaxed and comfortable with the feeling. Explore Your Sex Life Sign up for our tease newsletter to receive free weekly tips! I'm an assistant preschool teacher, but I live for sex positivity and ending slut shaming! Your email address will not be published. It can take a while for you both to get used to the sensation and do it right. Add more lubricant throughout as needed. Be sure to apply lube as necessary to ensure your comfort, and to maintain arousal.